Author: Tayla Gabin, Paediatric Occupational Therapist
4 min read
When families begin occupational therapy, the spotlight naturally shines on the child. Parents want their children to feel safe, succeed, and thrive. But therapy isn’t just for the child—it’s for the parent too. Through parent coaching, we support the whole family.
Why Parent Coaching in Occupational Therapy Matters
Children don’t grow in isolation. They grow in relationships—especially those with their primary caregivers. In paediatric OT, we understand that helping a child also means supporting their family. Parent coaching is a vital part of that support.
Through coaching, we help parents better understand their child’s sensory needs, motor development, and emotional regulation. More importantly, we explore ways to build connection that feels meaningful for both parent and child.
Feeling Silly? That’s Completely Normal
Let’s be honest—parent coaching can feel a bit awkward at first. We might invite parents to play in unfamiliar ways, sit on the floor in different positions, or sing songs they haven’t sung since their child was a baby.
It’s completely normal to think, “I feel a bit silly doing this.” These new experiences can feel uncomfortable. But they’re often the starting point for the biggest shifts. We’re not here to judge. We’re here to offer support, guidance, and a space to reflect and grow.
From Observation to Active Participation
In traditional therapy, parents may sit and watch while the therapist works directly with the child. In a relationship-based model, we do things differently. We welcome parents into the session as partners, not observers.
This might include noticing subtle cues from your child, responding differently in tricky moments, or changing how you use your voice or body. Even small changes can make a big difference in how a child experiences the world.
Empowerment Over Perfection
There’s no such thing as the perfect parent—or the perfect therapist. What matters is showing up with curiosity and a willingness to learn. Through parent coaching, parents gain confidence in their ability to support their child.
Coaching isn’t about being told what to do. It’s about discovering what works for your unique family, guided by your strengths and values.
Building Skills That Last Beyond the Session
Your child may see their occupational therapist once a week—but they’re with you every day. That’s why including parents in therapy is so powerful. We help co-create strategies, routines, and relationship-building practices that make daily life feel easier and more connected.
This approach supports regulation, resilience, and a stronger sense of connection for both the child and their caregivers.
A Shared Journey of Growth
Therapy is not a one-way street. It’s a shared journey. Sometimes that means stepping outside your comfort zone. Sometimes it means holding space for big emotions—your child’s, and your own. But each of these moments offers a chance to grow, together.
If you ever feel unsure, awkward, or a bit silly in a session, know you’re not alone. That feeling is part of the process. And we’re right here with you.
Final Thoughts
Parent coaching is a key part of what makes occupational therapy truly holistic. It allows us to support not just the child, but the entire family system. Whether it’s through play, reflection, or new routines, we help nurture stronger, more connected relationships, one loving, sometimes-silly moment at a time.
Whether you join us in person or online, we’re here to support your journey.
If you feel like your child is struggling with play, regulation skills or sensory processing, talk to an occupational therapist for further guidance. Contact MoveAbout today. Check out our Facebook and Instagram pages for more education regarding sensory processing and regulation.
